Caroline O'Connor, licensed pshychotherapist

About Caroline

Caroline is a licensed therapist, relationship coach and a lifelong learner. She has taken numerous trainings and workshops over the past 25 years on relationships, intimacy & sensuality, personal development, somatic awareness, nervous system regulation, communication & conflict strategies, emotional & physical wellness and more. With everything she learns, she integrates it back into her work with couples. Additionally, her personal practices of Qi Gong, meditation, & mindful time in nature influence how she invites clients to open up & express; cultivate more clarity, understanding & compassion in their lives; and create the changes they deeply want to make.

Caroline’s additional background as a registered yoga teacher and bodywork therapist, as well as a lifelong musician, further inform her work and bring creativity and inspiration into her offerings.

My History & Philosophy

I have always been intrigued by relationship dynamics. My initial training began as a young, curious witness as the 4th of 8 children raised on a farm in rural upstate New York.

From an early age, I made observations about how family systems work, how so many personalities in the same house attempted to differentiate as well as connect, and how communication could change so quickly–with misunderstandings aplenty.

8 kids circa mid-80s

Coming from such a large family, I was immersed in many competing energy systems within a single space. I learned how the same situation could be perceived very differently by various people, and about the inherent struggles humans face in wanting to be known and witnessed, as well as figuring out how to be together, alone, and apart. This early “training” is where my fascination with interpersonal relationships and communication styles took root and blossomed into the work I do today.

Naturally intuitive, deeply empathetic, and trained in a variety of modalities, I use a large toolbox to draw awareness to the inner knowing (inner resources) that resides in each person. I help people find genuine clarity, courage & inspiration, and encourage conscious transformation for each couple or individual. We do this by getting clear on what matters most, working through limiting beliefs & patterns, and awakening new possibilities for connection, empowerment, sensuality, heart-centered freedom, and joy.

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“Caroline's ability to integrate empathetic, reflective listening with deeply meaningful questions has been absolutely essential to my relationship growth. Caroline creates a collaborative therapeutic space, weaving mindfulness & grounded guidance to facilitate relationship exploration and clarity. I have recommended her to many others, all of whom have shared my deep gratitude for her helpful support.”

— G.Z., Burlington, Vermont